Life does not stop after divorce, it begins anew!
I was thinking about this question recently after a conversation with a friend. She was involved with a guy for several months that turned out to be emotionally unavailable, though it didn’t start out that way. Initially he seemed to be together, showed her he cared, was attentive, but then he changed. He became distant, hard to pin down, wouldn’t respond to calls or texts for days with barely an excuse. She began to feel as though she did something wrong to turn him away.
But was it her or him? Was he just emotionally unavailable?
Well, the short answer is: maybe a little bit of both. Maybe the guy she fell for seemed like a great catch, but he was just not in the right emotional space to be in a relationship. Or he may have been a not so good guy; the kind of guy that plays mind games. Or maybe she just wasn’t his type.
Most men are good, honest, and not too complicated. Good, loyal men say what they mean and mean what they say. Men are pretty simple creatures when it comes right down to it. And, when they commit their heart to a woman there are three qualities, I believe, that they truly want and cherish in their woman.
So, that is my take on what men want. I would love to hear from you, both women and men if you think I missed anything.
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